Random thoughts #1902814027412982178

Family asks you: why don't you have a girlfriend? -- implying something like "hey, you aren't gay are you?"

When stuff like this happen, I feel so great I can't even describe. I politely smile and say some out answer, but inside I smile a lot. I know something they don't.

I have many examples from my family that women can ultimately destroy a man's life. All males in my family got trapped by a woman. They ALL became slaves to them.

These are the ones who asks me those questions like I am an alien or something... but hey, why should I answer honestly? "No I don't, I can get a woman for what they suit me, which is sex. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free anyway... I don't want to be working like a maniac to buy shit I don't need trying to meet some expectations from a eternal bitching machine who will never get satisfied. No I do not! I prefer to work less, live my life more, enjoy what I WANT when I WANT and have to give no excuses to anyone. Once upon a time woman were a great company, but now this is not the case, so I am out." -- no I will not say this. They don't want to hear the truth. I tried!

As no one wants the truth (at least those who hasn't have the trouble to find it on their own), I keep it to myself. I could happily try and give them some knowledge, but they don't want to learn. As I said, I tried, it didn't work and now I enjoy being labeled as misogynist, women-hater, well, the ordinary stuff. This all by men! I can't even imagine what women say about me, but hey, I don't care about what women say about me anyway, long ago I did but now I just can't care anymore. I don't know how I used to! They say what they want to, but fact is fact... if I had some insane amount of cash laying on my bank account I could be an alien and they would be all over me. Hey, that will happen sooner or later, as I, contrary to most communist-oriented people around me, like to work.

But as I said, quickies only, otherwise they will put their hands on my money. I am not that wise, but enough to know that no woman likes a man per se. What they like is what he can do for her. And in our system of exploitation of men we see everyday who wins when things go far enough (read co-habitation, marriage, children). Quick advice for men: condoms AND vasectomy, bachelor for life.

Are you still trying to make women happy?

...get the fuck over it!

You just can't. They are never satisfied. The thing that they say make them happy will be said to make them sad if suits them.

Case in point: a girl I know is described as beautiful by many men. You think this would get a women happy right? Wrong! She says she feel bad people see her as just an object.

She says that, but doesn't mean she really feels it. But whatever, they will use what best suits them and their needs.

What can we do? Well, get over it. They will do what suits them, you have no control over it, don't even try. Better to live alone and face the consequences of your actions ONLY than have a woman doing shit and you having to answer for it.

Wisdom from the grandfather

I love to talk with my grandfather. I do not agree with him on many topics, but he is old and wise, so I always listen to him. He dedicated his whole life to the army.

Today I was talking about don't-remember-what and I mentioned the trend that I noticed here in Brazil: women are taking the top-paying, order-giving jobs. Men are subordinated to them.

He said this:

"If you analyze better you'll ses that women are getting jobs that require them to give orders, but they are obeying to some MAN in a higher position than them, but as they're at the top you can't see them. They obey without questioning, and that is a great trait to jobs like banking, for example, recover some credit from a broke family for example. In the army, women are a very controversial topic, as they are reckless. They do things that no man dare to do. They do NOT feel guilt. They are cruel and VERY egotistic." (forgive me for the poor translation, that is the best that I can. do I wish I could translate it the way he said it to me, it was really amazing)

*They do not feel guilt*. Enough said.

Instinct is a bitch.

I was going to uni today to do ordinary stuff, you know, study. I do not like it, and the only men I know that like university are the manginas (loved that word, LOL). It's minorities/feminism everywhere, I get sick but I do not like to make a mess, so I keep my words to myself on that matter and let them talk. After all, they do not want to *reason*, they just want to *bitch* about political stuff that doesn't make any sense in real life (which they don't have any contact with, as they keep getting drunk with intellectual stuff). They want agreement, not facts.

OK, rant over. Let's try it again, without ranting this time... LOL.

I was going to uni today and meet up with a female friend of mine. She is in her early 20s and doing what most college students do in Brazil: graduating in law.

I asked the ordinary question "hey, how are you doing, how is the graduation going", stupid open questions like this. To which she replied "it's boring as hell but I have to do it. I would prefer to be learning how to cook, but you know... how am I supposed to make a living of that?", and I, in my joking mood replied: "why, get married! I am sure many men will love it! A women who likes to cook, how rare! You can cook for him, have kids, and I am sure he would love it."

She said: "No! I just want to cook when I want to, not as a chore that I have to do everyday! I do not want to be asking for money: can you give me some money, honey? That would be horrible, how dare I ask a man for money!" - And I said, joking of course: "Well, I would LOVE to be asking my wife for money. I might as well be taking care of home and kids, cooking and stuff, and wife goes to work and give me some money when I want it... sounds like an AMAZING deal to me! How easy that would be!".

(Oh, the independence thing. People are just getting boring on that feminism stuff, there's nothing new under the sun for us to laugh.)

I just proceeded to joke a little more: "well, you can become a bag lady then! 100% independent, no man to imprison you in a kitchen! Now that sounds better to you doesn't it?".

(Maybe I am getting boring too with my joking style? LOL!)

Now her answer was *amazing*!: "I was having a crisis about it yesterday, and it took a long talk with my friend to solve the mess, and here you are, joking about it! I am afraid!"

After laughing as I can (on my head, of course), I gave it a second thought: they want their old ways, but feminism said NO YOU DO NOT and they believe the hype. They want to cook, "only when they want it". They want to have kids, "only when they want it". They want it all. They want a man who respects them, but they do not bring nothing to the table - it's all about their needs. And feminism stuffed 'em into thinking they really can have it all, but deep down they know they won't. They fear their future: bag ladies, insane amounts of cats, alone. Their instincts know something does not fit. But their intellect clouds their *already limited* reasoning, so they keep deluding themselves.

Instinct, my friends, is a bitch. And a real nasty one.

What happens when one doesn't respond for its actions?

...reckless behavior, plain and simple.

Am I the only one who thinks that if every fuckin' person in this world make some effort to take care of his own life most things would fall into place? Or our resources will keep being redirected for those who don't really deserve it but still make their way into it, be it by law (affirmative actions *hock, spit*) or any other *usually political* means?

Damn I hate those people. Would you please leave me alone while I endlessly enjoy my resources that you will NOT touch to help the non-working masses? They would not.

Men are seen as wage slaves. We better protect our asses, cause they are going deeper and deeper. Am I the only one who felt really RELIEVED when found out the men's movement?

I have a friend who loves to work. He is not poor, but not rich too. But he works hard, and he has a good living. Not a large grand living style, he is not that educated and he is old so he doesn't bother anymore. But he keeps working hard, and I am sure his children will enjoy a much better living than he did, he maybe didn't go that far but he made his children climb the ladder. That's not to say that it will take three lifespams to live well if you're born poor, but you get the picture.

The same goes for a rich person who decided to waste it all. His children will have to regain everything.

You indeed pay for your parents' decisions. That's life. It's easier to think you are being treated unfairly, but I think that's life. You work hard to save your ass. And get over the fact that life is not fair, and that some things are out of our control, like decisions that were made before we were born by our parents. (HEY! THAT DOES NOT INCLUDE UNWANTED CHILDREN! ALWAYS WEAR PROTECTION!)

But no. It's easier to say NO I CAN'T TAKE IT BOO HOO HAAA!!! and the government comes to hug you. *Oh so poor!*

That's why no one get responsability for their actions. That's why we end up paying by them. If you extend the idea, that's why women get away with everything bad they do. They don't have to answer for their actions anymore. It is all men's fault, those pigs! (*hock, spit* again). In case of poor people, it's riches' fault. THEY OPRESS US, WE DO NOT HAVE NO POWER TO CONTROL OUR OWN LIVES!


In my country, politics are corrupt as they can. And they keep being re-elected.
They just act as if what they are doing is natural. When elections come, people vote on them again and again. Why should they change? They get away with it.

We can't give an inch to women. If we do, they feel justified to do what they just have done. And because of that, they will do again and again. And, as in law (at least here), if you give someone something for a period of time, they become entitled to it.

Women are women. Everywhere.

You think women out of USA, or UK, or anywhere you are, are different. No, it can't be that women are spoiled everywhere.

I hear people saying that Brazil is one of the places that you can find a decent women to marry. Well, if there's one thing I can say for sure, even being a young man (early 20s), is that it is NOT.

Many people here, not only women but men as well, would love to go to countries like USA to work. You get paid twice, even not more, to do the same jobs we do here. And some jobs you don't want to do (like cleaning), people here would gladly do it for wages that we pay here, imagine if they can earn what you pay there!! Plus the fact that American men are richer in general than most of Brazilian men. No surprise that they flock to you when you come.

Yes, they're easy around here. Gimme'em some luxury car, some gling-glang and they're as ready as they get. And they complain that in other countries they seem them as sluts... ok, I'll say, they had reason for complaining in the past. General slutdom here got huge at the same time it got huge in other countries. But now they complain like they still could... they don't.

I heard a lot of stories around women who married some "gringo" so she can buy some crazy stuff and get his money. She wouldn't divorce him (why should her?), but she will sleep around guaranteed. That's what they do.

You can find some real quality women here, but in very odd places, some you never take notice cause you will not hear about them, they're completely out of the tourist stuff. Only if you dig real deep. And there's still some risk, as some women, many actually, I've found making a mess with foreign men ARE from these places I'm mentioning. So no guarantees there too.

The #1 reason any brazilian women would love to have a american men is sometimes forgotten... a women can get a green card if they marry with you. Enough said?

Women and Cars

(I was quite eager to write about this stuff wasn't I? LOL)

This reminded me of all the cars I had. I don't have a car anymore, I bought a bike and it meets my transportation needs fairly well (and cheaply!).

But in my not-so-enlightened past I thought that I HAD TO HAVE a car, as it was "cool". And usually (not always) when people think about something as "cool", it's because it is able to impress people. Women, in this case.

I bought a new, shiny car to impress my girlfriend at the time. The worst decision I've made. I just couldn't afford it, and in fact I did not want to, I've got a lot better things to do with my money than endless gas buying. And I became the chauffer. Yes, she didn't drive at the time and I just took her wherever she wanted to go.

I got rid of her first, then of the car. Haven't look back since.

Think hard if you want to have a car, and if you really do, buy one which meets your transportation needs, not your status needs -- who has a NEED for status anyway, just dildos and women. Unless you want to be a slave to society, but then, you have no place reading blogs about men's freedom.

Food

Damn, I love food. Especially meat. I like to throw olive oil at everything and eat like a bull, fat included. My father did this. I do this too, proudly. Heart attack my ass. That's why I do sports, like all man should, it keeps your body well and your mind sharp. When it's time to eat, it's time to eat like an animal. No political correctness (as in "you are killing animals!") or health issues (you will screw yourself with that much fat!) allowed.

Two points:

1) Cooking. Women can't cook anymore. My mother is an amazing cook, but she just refuses to do so. No way, end of story. Others just doesn't know how to. And doesn't want to. "We don't need to anymore!", they proudly scream. We men better learn how to cook, and cook amazingly well. One more thing to excel at, one less thing to depend on a woman.

I've seen many women admit we men cook better than them. I think they say this so we get proud and start cooking all the time, as they're lazier every day and doesn't want to do shit. Screw them. You will not eat, no bitching allowed, more meat for me.

2) Vegetarianism. My ass. That's about it. Meat is pure pleasure, animals my ass, we've got much to do before caring about animals' well-being. Humans eat meat long before some brilliant idiot on some overrated university decided that it was cruel or not healthy or any political correct idiot stuff like this.

Eat well, eat as you like, anything you like. It's one of the pleasures that life has to offer! Screw feminists, dildos and their attempts at throwing guilt at us even when we're fucking eating!

Social scientists and mass manipulation

Discovered Cool Tools 4 Men today, and start reading. Got addicted, as I usually get when I discover more anti-matriarchy material.

... and found this.

Social scientists observe us, and report on Human behaviour. They observe how we think, and the biases and prejudices that creep into our thinking. These days, now that religion has become less important in many societies, social scientists - particularly the psychologists and sociologists - are becomming the guardians of our morality, informing us who and what is normal or abnormal.

But who keeps an eye on the social scientists? Themselves? What if most of them share the same sort of biases?

Now that is a AMAZING question. Every day I go to college to do my business, which I thought was to study and get educated so I can get something going on -- OK I am not that deluded anymore (more on that later).

It's torture, everyday. There is always some activism going on, especially women's group stuff. Mostly pro-abortion movements (here in Brazil we still doesn't have this, and PLEASE god bless my country so we don't allow it), theories about how every human being is born bi-sexual and conditioning makes their sexuality, women's right studies and movements (and the other ones that jump on the bandwagon, minorities stuff), how the capitalism is screwing ooh so poor people. Pack this with the apparently endless supply of affirmative actions. Women, poor people, black people, you name it. Not that I have any problem with any of these (dammit, why we always have to be defending ourselves like we're some kind of monsters? What I have a problem with is privilege), but seriously, why some people have the *right* to something just because they were born that way? As if people can't go conquer the world by their own effort!

What bugs me is that there's ALWAYS some social scientist behind it, with some bogus statistic and lots of "proven facts" and a superiority complex -- they're academics and because of it, they know everything. Reality does not seems to matter to them. They're too busy with their ideal worlds, endlessly drunk with their own theories, which are flawless in their eyes. "You have no right to question, you don't have the credentials to it", "show me your data". Duh, open your eyes?!

We men ought to keep our two eyes wide open and reject every theory that in fact only serves to blind us even more to reality: the predator nature of today's women and their privileges. We've got to protect ourselves of them and live our lives as we see fit, not to mold some "oh-so-correct" theory that a fat, lazy slob did only to get some from his (fat) nagging wife. Or some (fat) bitching bitch.

Why women are getting more and more overpriced

I don't know if I speak only for myself on this, but the features that I find attractive in women are becoming despised by them. Long hair, modest attitude and clothes, nurturing, loving, quiet (yes, quiet!) -- all of this and more are just labeled as weak and discarded. You now get cigarretes, drugs of all types, tatoos, reckless sex, revenge...

Try, just try to say that you like these features and get ready for the massive attack! "YOU'RE AFRAID OF STRONG WOMAN!", they say. "YOU DON'T THINK WOMEN OUGHT TO BE FREE?". Well, this makes me remember a discussion I had with a female some days ago... she was bitching that she can't find a boyfriend. I got ironic and started to make fun of her: "hey! isn't that feminism? you women wanted independence, now go seize it! you're not alone, you're independent! why do you need any man? isn't you who said that they are not necessary?"

You really have to try this. See their face turn red, then the anger comes out. At the end of the day, we men are responsible for everything BAD that happens to them. After all, they can't assume responsability, they're too fragile! Boo-hoo!!

And I wonder how some people still want to deal with women...

...new blog created!

Well, after lots of reflection and reading, I decided to create my own blog.

Contrary to most blogs and websites that I read, I'm not from England or United States. I'm Brazilian.

That would add for a nice third-world, so-called-paradise-of-nice-old-school-women perspective.

The only thing is that you will have to forgive me for my poor English skills. We speak Portuguese here. (no, it's NOT spanish we speak here!) -- LOL. I decided to post in English for the benefit of the world community. If demand arises I may post in both languages.